The Results Are In: How Much Are Parents Tipping This Purim?

By Y.M. Lowy

The results are in, and they’re buzzing! We asked people from Boro Park, Williamsburg, Monsey, and Monroe how much they’re tipping their children’s rebbes, teachers, and bus drivers this Purim, and the answers are rolling in! The community has spoken, and the range of responses is truly eye-opening. From generous gestures to surprising figures, it’s clear that Purim tipping is as diverse as it is thoughtful. Do you think the results align with what you expected, or will you be surprised? Let's explore the results!

Among the respondents, 49% have at least one child in playgroup, 71% have at least one child in school, and 75% have at least one child in cheder.

A remarkable 72% of respondents shared that they tip their child’s rebbe at least $100, while 23% said they give between $20 and $100. Almost no one reported giving less than $20.

When it comes to teachers, the numbers showed a slightly different pattern. Only 11% of participants tip their child’s teacher $100 or more, while a significant 82% give between $20 and $100. About 3% said they tip less than $20.

As for bus drivers, 68% of respondents said they give between $20 and $100, while just 4% reported tipping $100 or more. Meanwhile, 10% shared that their contribution is less than $20.

48% of respondents said they give Mishloach Manos to their child’s rebbe, with 40% adding a heartfelt note. For teachers, the results are similar, 47% shared that they give Mishloach Manos, and 43% include a heartfelt message.

Bus drivers receive less attention in this with only 14% of respondents said they give their child’s bus driver Mishloach Manos, though 22% make the effort to include a note.

For many families, the cost of Purim bonuses can quickly add up, especially with a large number of children. As one respondent put it, “It adds up a lot, but I prioritize it, and it’s well deserved.” Another shared, “Purim bonuses can be expensive for a large family!” Despite the high costs, many view it as a vital way to show gratitude. “It’s a big expense, but I believe it’s important to show appreciation to our rebbeim and teachers,” said one parent.

For some, the financial balancing act is real. One family explained, “The total yearly tips amount is deducted from the tuition bill,” while another noted, “Tips alone for all five of my kids cost me close to $1500… It’s a very difficult time.” Despite the financial strain, many choose to give what they can. “I tip according to my ability. Some years, it’s less, but this year, Baruch Hashem, I was able to give more generously,” shared a parent who tipped teachers, drivers, and tutors for all of their children.

The amount often varies yearly, as one parent explained, “It depends on the Rebbe, Morah, and driver.” And for some, the spirit of giving goes beyond Purim. “I try to give every Rosh Chodesh,” said one respondent, reflecting a year-round effort to show appreciation.